LIZ: BOOK #23

Crazy Love by Leslie Morgan Steiner

336 pages

Completed 5/6/10

The memoir of Steiner's fast-tracked relationship and subsequent marriage to the man of her dreams - who was physically abusive. Eloquently written and with the gift of retrospect, this book made me feel for the author. An intelligent, educated woman who ignored the signs of, and then the blatant domestic abuse at the hands of her husband until a near-death encounter made her leave.

The complicated relationship with her parents was not explained enough, in my opinion. Especially towards the end of the book, when a unthinkable betrayal occurs. Despite the horrific encounters with her battering spouse, I didn't feel very emotional until something unrelated to the troubled couple occurs.

This well-written account of abuse and subsequent escape is a good book for teens, in my opinion. Yes, a bit advanced and unrelatable to most teenagers (grad school rather than high school), but an account of things she missed, friends who betrayed, family who didn't understand, and strength in getting out would be indispensable for girls getting into new relationships.

LIZ: BOOK #22

Waiter Rant by The Waiter aka Steve Dublancia

302 pages

Completed 5/5/10

Started as a blog destressing about his waiter position at a high-end NYC restaurant. As a twice-time server, I could totally relate to most of the obnoxious - and great - customers. But what I found most intriguing about this memoir was the breakdown of the relationships between coworkers, bosses, and significant others. Fueled by his own sense of underachievement and unmistakable confusion of where he wants to go in life (even though he's pushing 40), Dublancia really made me feel for him.

I enjoyed how each chapter focused on one subject without it being spacey between them. Although not as side-splitting as I had hoped, the dry humor and amusing conversations kept me entertained.

I checked out his blog, www.waiterrant.net, which Dublancia still updates frequently, and think I'll bookmark it. Likable in a way only someone who admits to his faults can be, the writing was edited just enough to feel like this was just someone telling you his story face-to-face.

LIZ: BOOK #21

Whistling in the Dark by Lesley Kagen

336 pages

Completed 5/4/10


This novel revolves around two young sisters in the 1950s left to fend for themselves with a hospitalized mother, absent older sister, and alcoholic stepfather, in a town that's been plagued by two assaults and murders of two girls. The sisters' relationship is touching; other than that, though, nothing in this book really got to me.

Far too many characters with far too large families lead to confusion, a twisted love triangle, all combined with the unlikeliness of the majority of the situations written, this was novel was far too much of a stretch to be believable.

Sometimes after reading books, I check online to see what other readers had to say. I was surprised that the overwhelming majority of people loved this book - I thought it was overwritten, lacking, and disappointing all at the same time. I think it's time for a memoir...

LIZ: BOOK #20

The Los Angeles Diaries: A Memoir by James Brown

224 pages

Completed 4/19/10

Overdue for a memoir I would enjoy, I picked this book up off the shelf it'd been sitting on for over a year. Brown allows the reader to delve into his drug and alcohol fueled existence with brief interruptions of his troubled childhood. Relationships with his disturbed mother, equally addicted brother and sister, a less than perfect father, and broken marriage with rarely-mentioned children paint a picture of a broken man.

Shaped by addiction, Brown's memoir is dark and haunted by the suicides of his siblings. However, as in most memoirs I enjoy, dry humor is laced throughout - both by the mere pathetic events that take place and Brown's own awareness.

Of note: the last chapter, focused on the author's suicidal sister, is written in a different way than the rest of the book. Normally, this would bother me; I like consistency in writing. However, the confusion and broken sentences allowed me to understand the desperation of the characters and the rise to the surface of addiction that Brown seemed to have made. With unanswered questions, I went to Google with searches of Brown's epilogue - to me, a successful memoir that led me to wanting more.

LIZ: BOOK #19

Not Buying It: My Year Without Shopping by Judith Levine

288 pages

Completed 4/17/10

The mere idea of this title made me break out into a sweat; there's no way I could do this. But it piqued my interest. I expected a humorous self-effacing account of a twenty-something year old forced to save and not spend. Oh, how I was wrong. I should have realized I was off point when the first chapters focused on the economics and societal effects of spending and shopping.

Levine voluntarily embarks on this no-spending journey with her roommate (a random guy in his forties...I wish more details were revealed about this weird relationship) and situations that could have been written funnily were instead dry and, quite frankly, boring. Are Q-tips a luxury? What foods are not a necessity? Ugh, spare me.

I began this book and was so annoyed a few chapters in that I had to stop. Only when I was too lazy to go get another book did I pick it back up again. Readers more politically lined may enjoy this, but for me the book was more about consumerism than quirky ironies and a better-than-thou attitude.

LIZ: BOOK #18

Tabloid Love: Looking for Mr. Right in All the Wrong Places by Bridget Harrison

384 pages

Completed 4/13/10

This memoir read like fiction to me - not necessarily the intended effect when reading a memoir. However, see my last post to understand why I needed something a little lighter to read. Gossipy and humorous without reading too much like chick-lit, this account of an English 29 year old's next 5 years in New York City working for a tabloid paper, writing a dating column, and pursuing men of all walks of life, keeps your interest if only for the reason you want to see what happens to Bridget.

Yes, there were a lot of similarities - and references - to Bridget Jones and Carrie Bradshaw, but this was book was more self-discovery than single girl escapades; although there were plenty of those. My biggest complaint about this memoir was how it wrapped up so open-ended.

All in all, Harrison is a talented writer with some unique experiences under her belt. Obviously not a book you'd pick up for substance, but a good beach read nonetheless.

LIZ: BOOK #17

Children of the Flames: Dr. Josef Mengele and the Untold Story of the Twins of Auschwitz by Lucette Matalon Lagnado and Sheila Cohn Dekel

320 pages

Completed 4/6/10

I have been working on an intensive research paper on medical experimentation in concentration camps during WWII and in my research came across this book. For this one paper, I've actually read 13 books, but none worth reviewing for this blog; until this one.

Dr. Josef Mengele, or "The Angel of Death" was medically fascinated with twins. This fascination led to twins' lives being spared from the gas chambers, but their fate instead led them to horrific medical experiments at the hands of Mengele. I won't go into too much detail here, but this book is not for the weak-stomached. Only 160 of 3000 twins subjected to genetic experimentation by Mengele survived through the end of the war.

Written as both a biography of Mengele interrupted by interview excerpts from some of the twin survivors, I was more intrigued by the firsthand accounts of the children - now adults. I also could not keep all of the names straight which was a shame because the epilogue updates (as of 1993) were very thorough.